"That still doesn't mean you will get it right.
If we are being too careful, we can miss the right person or opportunity.
Everything that will be successful requires risk."
So let me respond to the response.
Yes, marriage is a risk.
But there’s a difference between faith and foolishness.
Between stepping out with wisdom…and diving in with wishful thinking.
My last post wasn’t about being so cautious that you miss love.
It was about not letting hormones, loneliness, or societal pressure blindfold you and call it “chemistry.”
Let’s be honest:
Many people didn’t miss the right person because they were “too careful”…
They chose to ignore the signs, then called it a surprise when things went south.
"Everything worth having requires risk" is true —
But not all risks are equal.
Jumping off a cliff hoping you’ll grow wings isn’t the same as building a glider before you take flight.
Red flags aren't puzzles to be solved or prayer points to be recited over.
They're often God’s early warnings...
don’t mute the alarm and call it faith.
This is what the Bible says in Proverbs 22:3 (NLT): “A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences.”
You can be wise and still be open.
You can take a leap without closing your eyes.
You can love deeply without losing yourself in the process.
So no...the post wasn’t anti-risk.
It was pro-discernment.
Faith walks on water when Jesus says “Come.”
Foolishness jumps into the storm assuming He’ll follow.
Choose well.
See clearly.
Love wisely.
It still matters.
👣 Be Better. 💛 Choose Better. 🙌🏾 Date Better. 💍Marriage Works.
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